Bryan and I selected our marriage date of July 4 for a few reasons - some of which may seem silly to y'all. Our first date was on November 4, 2007. While we were dating, Bryan always tried to do something special on the 4th of the month, in fact, he proposed on November 4, 2008. When we thought about a date for our wedding, Bryan thought it might be a good idea (and easier for him) if we married on the 4th of a month. We also thought it might be best to marry in the summer because it would be easier for my family to travel from the midwest in the summer.
So, the calendar search began. It didn't take long for me to discover that the only 4th in the summer of 2009 that fell on a weekend was July 4. I asked Bryan if he thought that it would be crazy to marry on the 4th of July. We thought about it and both agreed that there would be no better date to celebrate our marriage.
At the time, we also had an honest conversation about how we would be spending our anniversaries for many years to come. Bryan is a sound man, and wanted to make a go of the audio company. We agreed that we could do this - but knew it also meant that our anniversaries for many years would be spent with Bryan doing some sort of outdoor event. In fact, we joked that if he did not have a gig on the 4th of July that there would be bigger problems in the marriage - July 4, is the one day every sound man should be able to find a gig.
And so, we spent our first anniversary as husband and wife - doing what we do - providing a sound system for a 4th of July party in the Colonies. I worked as Bryan's stage hand for the day. :) Honestly, I loved this gig - it was an easy, low stress kind of gig. Precisely the type of gig needed on our anniversary.
We enjoyed the music of local band AFK, and eventually (after a several hour delay) enjoyed the Amarillo Fireworks display.
Not a bad way to celebrate - Bryan jokes that the whole country celebrates with us.
Here's to many more celebrations!
2 comments:
Happy Anniversary!!! Sorry I didn't get a chance to call, I remembered on the 3rd and today on the 5th. Sorry. Happy Anniversary you guys! Here's to #1 and many, many more to come! Scott and I have decided to celebrate our 8 yrs together (6 married) on our old dating anniversary, August 4th. Since October 30th falls by Halloween and my Dad's birthday, we get sidetracked. :) There is nothing wrong with celebrating as long as you celebrate somehow.
Congratulations on your anniversary. I did think about you (albeit a few days earlier since your anniversary is close to mine). You two seem so content. It thrills me to see you so happy.
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